If you use the WSS 3.0 embedded SQL engine (standalone install) you will have noticed there is no database admin tool except for the stsadm back/restore command line utility. Even if you have a full copy of SQL server on another server, you can't connect to the WSS database remotely because network connectivity is disabled.

There is a free SQL management tool called Management Studio Express which you can download from http://www.wssdemo.com/redir.aspx?ID=1008

And using the magic connection string \\.\pipe\mssql$microsoft##ssee\sql\query you can connect to the Microsoft##SSEE instance.

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